This session, I just wanna ask one question. I always confuse of it.
At this time, I want to dream when I became a father to be. And let we dream of it, if we are not :)
Mother and the baby in his womb have strong relation and connection. What the mother feels, hears, says, eats; the baby will have it too. If the mother is angry, the baby will feel angry too. If the mother hears some music, the baby will hear it too.
When Baby is in the womb until baby is 5 years old, she will learn anything faster. Her brain is ready to accept anything around her, including language. The description likes a white paper. When the baby was born, she likes white paper. She will write anything that she learns on the paper. The paper is still clean and white. She is easy to write or learn, and also faster than when the paper is dirty or she grows older (more than 5 year).
So at this time is the best time for the parents who want to give education to their children. That is way, I try to have a dream when I have a baby. This is what I will do for her.
1. When I know my wife is pregnant, at the first month I know, I will have much conversation with the baby in the womb. And I will have much conversation with the mother also. I try to use English or any language that I can. The purpose is I want my children can learn any language easier than her father :D.
2. I let my wife to read Al Quran many time than usual. Also I will read Al Quran, and let my baby hear it inside the womb. And I will play the Al Quran sound for the baby. The purpose is I want to introduce my baby with Islam, and love the Al Quran as her favorite reading.
3. After she was born, I will give more attention to her, having many conversations, giving a lot of education story, teaching her about any lesson (e.g. fiqh, sunnah, math, physic and anything I have).
4. I will try to have English as our communication. English is important language, and I want my child is ready her future, because I can not give anything to protect her, only her self can do it.
May be you will have a big smile when you read this. Believe it or not, you want it or not, all of us will be the parent, wont we? Prepare it from now, because knowing anything at early is better than we learn it when the time has come.
My dream is simple right.
One more important thing when we want to have great child (Allah always gives us the best thing, remember that). We have to start from when we find for the wife. What does it mean? When we want to produce the good quality of product, so we have to have a good factory, right. At the first time is finding good mother for our children. It means, she has good attitude, good understanding of Islam. The parameter of good depends on your self. Every couple will have similar quality. The thief man will have a thief wife, the helpful man will have the helpful wife too. If you want to have good mother, be good for your self at first.
After having a good mother for your baby, the important process is “producing”. This is very important process. When you “sleep” with your wife, You and your wife should pray or sholat. You can pray to Allah, asking for protection of the satan, asking for the health and sholeh or sholehah children. You must have the purpose to do it just for Allah, for Allah ridhlo. Sholeh or sholehah children can help us when the judgement day.
This is the pray when you “sleep” with your wife
"Bismillah Allahumma jannibnaasy syaithaan wa jannibisy syaithaan maa
razaqtanaa".
(With the name of Allah, ya Allah keep away syaitan from us and keep away syaitan suppose does not disturb us from blessing thing YOU give to us).
(HR. Al Bukhari no. 141, 3271, 5165, Muslim no. 1434)
I hope I have enough time for this, and Allah give me family of sakinah, mawadah, warohamah.
And I have to get married first, before all of this :D
~my dreaming for the furure~
Life likes a mirror.
This is my assumption, according to my experient life. I am a person who acts too much. Some of my friend, who knows me, will understand how I am. If I like something, I will love it forever and nothing can change it. If I hate something, I will hate it forever too. I know it is really bad attitude. I try to avoid it, but it has lived on my mind since I was child.
I remember an advice, “Don’t love in some one/thing too much, because you will hate it same time. Don’t hate some one/thing too much, because you will love it some time. If you act too much, you will be disappointed and hurt your self”. It is true. That is why I wrote “Life likes a mirror”. Mirror just can reflect what is in front. Try this; stand in front of a mirror and hate what you see at mirror. Hit it or do anything if you hate something. What happen is you will fill hurt, because when you hit the mirror, your hand will injure. See, it reflects what you have done. Then try to stand in front of a mirror again, and love what you see at mirror. Hug it, or kiss it or do anything if you love something. What happen is you can not huge. You will feel you huge something else, not what you like, because you can not have it.
I would like to remember about Newton’s 3rd low (Motion); “for every action there is an equal and opposite re-action”. Yes, it is effect not just for thing, but also for our life. The re-action, sometime is not like what you have done, but it really will impact you directly. Have you ever to hate some one very much? It means you wanna fight him. What happen is when you really face it; you have a chance to fight with him. The point is not you are the winner or the loser, but you also will hurt or create another trouble with it. You may force with the low, or his family. Or may be you will be guilty some time. Who will be hurt? Our self, right? Then, have you ever to love some one very much? You wanna have her or live with her forever. Yes, when you love her, she will love you. But, it is fata morgana. It is just temporally, you can not love her forever. She is a human, she can die. Are you ready if she dies today, tomorrow? How love you are, remember a mirror, you can not have her forever, she belongs to Allah. You just can have the shadow of her, you just can feel the mirror.
Some time, we don’t know how strong we are to face our live. But, one ting we must be know, try to keep calm. Do anything just enough, don’t too much, then you can face your live with peace and calm.
I want to be calm, face my life just enough. I don’t want to hate some one/thing too much, and I don’t want to love some one/thing too much. I can not have everything or everyone. All of them belong to Allah. I just wanna have Allah, because with having Allah, it is enough for every thing in this world.
But, I can not do it yet. Teach me please, remember me please, for every day, every hour, every minute, and every second.
Do you believe in destiny? This question always faces us every time we get some thing bad (what we don’t want), or good (what we want). People may believe or may not believe it. It depends on what she believes. Does she believe with God or not? If you do not believe with God, skip this writing. We have no the same perception.
How do we face our destiny if we believe? All the questions are only answered by your self and just for your self.
Have you ever seen the people around you? Let’s see them and learn from them. I tell you, I have a friend. He is from low economical financial. He had just 200 thousand rupiah for a month, and it was used for rent a room and him daily food. Ya, Allah. I thought how he could live with that money, was it enough? But, the fact he can live and survive with what he had.
Then I have another friend, she is from high economical financial. He got from his father 700 thousand rupiah a month, and it was just for her daily food. She had money for the rent-room, or if she wanted something, she just asked her father. Easy right! But she almost spent her money and at the middle of the month, she had no more money. Ya Allah, it was very different condition. I have a friend with limited condition (financial) and I have a friend with good condition (financial).
I am afraid it is the faith, it is destiny. Why people have a different live, why people have different opportunity.
At this moment, I guess all of you believe, there is a destiny for us. All of us have been written our destiny. Are our live happy or sad? Are our financial Good/bad? Are we health/sick? Are we good looking or bad? Believe it or not, it is the truth.
But before I tell you about our destiny, I would ask you one question. What is your opinion about good/bad, happy/sad, rich/poor? I give you a minute to think about it.
Do you have the answer? Keep it, because it is for you, not me or the other. Simple description, good is bad, bad is good. Are you confused? It is just attribute , it is just what you feel or you mind said. Some people will say some thing is bad, but other say it is good. I give you a case. If there is a girl, young girl then let 10 mans, or thousand mans look at her. Do they say she is beautiful? No, may be one or some mans say she likes ordinary girl. See, the attribute is ambiguity. Your heart or your mind gives the attribute to you. So, who do determine the attribute? It is God, Allah. Your mind and your heart belong to Allah. Allah has the right and power to give the sadness, happiness, like or dislike something.
Then what is the point of these? I say one thing, don’t look at the result, and don’t look at the attribute but look at the way and look how you face the result.
There are 2 keys;
1. What the way you take, how your way to achieve it, how strong you are
Let don’t think the result first, but think how I can have my dream. I have to work hard, do the right way. It is better for us than we just think our dream
2. How to face the result.
And the result, can we face it? Remember that anything is the best Allah gives to us. Bad or good is just attribute. Many people (include me), think that anything that we don’t want it, is the bad thing, it‘s not good for us. Believe me, some time when people get what he want, it’s not the good thing for him.
Look at our people, some of them just end his life when he face the bad thing of his life, when he has no job, divorce, or some thing bad. But, sometime people who have anything what they want, it does not make them happy.
So, I think and try to support my self. Just do the best what we can, and keep hoping, dreaming to motivate me, and give the result to Allah. I pray, I hope Allah give me power and patient to face anything what Allah give to me. The last I hope I can always say thanks to Allah.
~thinking at this morning, after wake up~
This is what I think when I have an empty glass. I have just drunk a glass of water, and I saw it. The simple my mind said that the glass is empty. It is normal, because I saw an empty glass.
I remember what my best friend (FE) said, “What do you think if you see an empty glass?” I said, “The glass is empty, I have no water anymore”. He said, “You are right, but you are failed”. What he said like that. For a moment I confuse about what he said. I asked him, “Why you said I am failed”. Yes, and he explained to me. “Everything has 2 sides, the one is negative and another is positive. The ordinary person is easy to look at the negative side. Just like what you said before. You think that you have no water cause the glass is empty, it is the negative. Why you don’t think about the glass is empty and I can have any kind drink what I want”.
For a while I shut my mouth off, I become quite person.He is right. I can have any kind of drink what I want by using the empty glass.
The life is like a glass we have. Some time, we lose what we have, and some time we have no thing. That is a life man; nothing is immortal in this life. Everything will gone, and come. And every time you lose some thing, let’s think; now, I will get what I want.
I know that it is not easy to apply. But, learning for your life is not like you learn a math or physics, which is you can learn it for a day, for a month or for a year. But it needs many-many years.
Do you still remember when you lost your money, your friends, or your carrier? You must be sick (ill feel), depressed, or you felt that it is the end of your world. Think, the world is not just a small cube like what u imagine about. It has been for many millions years ago. Your life is not so short; you will face your future, another opportunity.
I will tell you about 2 things;
So let we face our life until the death come, until Allah takes our life.And let we fill our empty glass with any drink what we want. Ok bro.. :D
Transportation is a process which is a moving people or goods from a place to another place. It has been happened since the first man was born on the earth. The basic of transportation is a moving by on foot. We do it every day, any time. Since the movement and the growth of technology, people try to have transportation facility to help them moving by faster. Now we can see ship, bike cycle, car, train, and the faster is plane.
People always research and develop any kind of transportation facility. What is the aim of it? Only one reason, people want move from one place to another place as fast as he can. It is not just enough people move by faster, but they also want the safety. Some time people will pay to get the fastest transportation, including has a personal helicopter, or personal jet plane. We can see that how important the transportation is.
Talking about the future is talking about technology. Before people have plane for their transportation, they though that was impossible, people could move to another island/continent only in a day (a few hours) or rounded the world in a few days. But now, they believe that, they build that, and they use that.
This is what I imagine about the next transportation in the future. I believe that people can move from one place to another place, one island to another island, or to another place (space) only a second or a few seconds. I will explain what I trust on this theory.
Einstein said that energy is a mass that is crossed by quadrate speed of light, or:E=mccNote:
E is energy (Joule)
m is mass (kg)
c is speed of light (m/s), is constant (3x1.e+8)
How the theory of energy (Einstein) can be reference that people can move to another place only in a second/ a few seconds, I will explain in simple argument;
If we describe the formula that energy is multiply of mass and length (distance), and divide with time. Let’s concern on the units;
We will have how much of time is needed base on this formula;
It can be confused, how it can be happen. I want you bold and underline my statement; I did not find the formula, I just use Einstein theory of energy for reference. I will give you a simple case;
I am 68 kg. If I move with speed of light (3x108 m/s), my body (particles) will be energy. Energy = 68 kg x (3x1.e+8 m/s)2 = 6.12x1.e+18 joule. After I changed to energy, and I will round the earth with distance is 12,756.32 km (1.275632x1.e+7 m). I need the time, approximately;I just need 0.04 second to round the earth. That is my opinion about how possible is we can move to another place in the world (or space) only a few seconds.
= 0.04 second
Lots of research and experiments might be done by scientist. Step by step, our technology of transportation is growing up faster, and believe it or not, our future will make anything are possible.
The problem is we must move with light of speed (3x108 m/s)
~it is just my mind ^-^
